| Location | Romford |
| Age | 51 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 08/01/1957 |
| Date of Death | 19/01/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,123 since 27/06/2007 |
| Creator |
Steve Atkins
19/01/07
This website is for me and dan my brother the most missed father we ever had no one take that away from us xxxx
well here update news we all finally letting dad to rest at the crem after 2 and half years and the courts cases are over now thank god...
Dad was with his girlfriend Brenda 5 years together... although they helped each other out and lived together... my dad first wife was my mum who they been together for 18 years that well long time my mum loved him and they were good friends still talked...
2 children 1 daughter who is deaf and 1 son
My dad died of gallstones, blood poisoning didnt do all tests taken so sudden away from us...
My dad was a good man he would do anything for his children and his girlfriend and family he was very loving, caring and would do anything for anyone and the best dad we could ask for...
What made me so mad is the doctors and hospitals never did everything to act and made him suffer in pain for 6 weeks before he died and we planned a big 50th surprise party and he gone few days after his birthday and couldnt manage to do anything and my step mum who tried to save my dad who couldnt take the pain but to leave all of us knowing we need him back.
Here update news brenda and dan went to the health authorities and the hospital now have addmitted they have neglected him and killed him and while trying to save him which should be by a top surgeon NOT a junior doctor at the queens hospital in hospital so finally got a good case for suing them they deseve a big pay out for killing our dad.... ITS NOT THE MONEY WE NEED OR THE COST OF HIS LIFE HE WAS OUR DAD AS A HUMAN AND KILLED HIM FULL STOP!! WHAT DO U CALL COMPENSATION FOR?? while he died i really wanted to see him to have him embalmed and i forked out for him cos it what i wanted to make him look nice cos i saw him the night he died and it wasnt nice so i wanted it to help me remember dad but i couldnt cos he looked worse for wear and i couldnt grieve or anything like that now its finally come that i fully have emotions filling up with full of anger and just some people cant forget the past and bring it up and blame on others when me and dan are trying to grieve and we dont need things like thats hes GONE simple as that!!!! Nothing will bring him back but i want to thank brenda for trying to save his life and there for him through out his life for 3 years that i feel she should be able to impress it with us together not just one person expressing their feelings all the time when it should 3 of us talking about life and our dad and get through it together i know it what my dad would have wanted.... I know i have full of anger and i know im nasty when i say things i dont mean cos im now grieving and i dont know what to do it finally hit me to make me realise things in gerneral in life.... I know i love my family and i never forget things that been done and been said but they still my family.... Brenda had been very kind helping me and dan out with courts,legal aids had been such a good help for us we very much appericate it...
it been 3 years this jan 19th 2010 now since our dad died and we really missing him so much we still waiting to hear about the case for neglect and my dad already been in the papers quite a few months ago just a case of waiting!!! Its all been sorted out now...
His birthday on 8th january he would have been 54 !!
I miss you :(
Hi Dad sorry not been here for a long while i thought to write you a message to say that i miss you very much and i love you lots and glad you are laid to rest at the crem not long ago after 2 and half years and now the courts cases are over now so its not as painful as it for us all now but we do think about you all the time... Have had so many problems for the last 6 months of hell but it is getting better in time... Hope you have been good with the angels because i know what you are like haha
God bless you
Lots of love from ur daughter and family xx
2 years!!
I cant believe it had been 2 years 19th jan 2009 since u been gone u are sadly missed by all of us we have now decided to put ur ashes at the crem where we can come and see you and lay flowers there and all the families will be there to see you... we all love you dad xxx
Dad never forgotton
I havent forgotton you and especially its your birthday tomorrow 8th jan that the date i never forget and i give u all the hugs and kisses and wishing u were here with us all hope u ok up there dad with the guardians angels
Love you lots from Laura and dan and family xxx
sad to write this to you on xmas time
Dad i am thinking of u especially at xmas time u wont be here with me on xmas day that im emotionally thinking of u and i miss u so much i cant believe its 2 years in january and i really wish u were here cos i miss my dad i never will forget you u always be in my heart its so hard not seeing u for a whole 2 years that i have to keep strong for you and hope u be looking down at me and one day when i die i will see you in heaven and giving u lots of tight hugs and kisses.. i wanted to say happy xmas and i will light a candle for you and kiss the photo of me and you and that i love you so much and hope u ok with the angels that are looking after you im trying to get through xmas and got my dave there for me to keep me going and i will take photos up for you to look at rest in peace dad love u lots from me and dan and brenda and my mum and the whole family xxxx
Dad i miss you
This week had been very emotional been feeling really down, missing family.... just started work love the job keeps me busy... lately ive had u in my spirits and its nice to have u in my mind touching my hair these days knowing u there to comfort me i really wish u was here... legal process is taking so long but getting there .... i really love you so much..xxx
Just a message for you
thought to pop in to see how u are hope u not getting in mischief im ok got news for you to know... moved to a 2 bedroom house been very busy trying to get it all done... then making plans to get married for next year... not looking forward to xmas without you here dad not the same without u not making it to a xmas time this year just having a quiet one... Missing u loads love u lots and lots xxxx
For you brenda
this is from me writing for my dad to you from both of us wishing u happy 60th birthday and that we both thinking of you god bless you lots of love from steve and laura xxxx
Time heals ...
im really badly am missing you cant imagine not to see u again missing our talks and hugs wishing u was here back alive.. its like life will never be the same without u... that a part of u is missing in my life that i never forget.. rest in peace dad xxx
time is a healer
hello steve things here stillnot sorted for dan and laura should be next year or so have now been told of issues but hope u rest in peace sorry for u having to leave so sadely rest in forever peace if u can goodbye
Happy fathers day
just want to say that we both thinking of you and have lighted a candle for you and that we are missing you lots and lots.... never will be forgotten xxxx
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